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What is a child and family counselor and how to become one

Updated January 8, 2025
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Debra Minsky-Kelly

Child and family counselors are therapists that specialize in helping children and their families. They help children work through mental health challenges, and help families support them in that journey, so that a kid can enjoy a carefree childhood free of trauma.

Child and family counselors can work with children individually, meet with them and a parent, or work with a family as a whole. They usually use different tactics than a counselor for adults would use, such as using play therapy or art therapy in addition to talk therapy. Child and family counselors need to have extensive knowledge of various treatments for mental health challenges and how they can be applied to children. They also need to be patient and know how to support children with additional resources if necessary at the child's own pace of healing.

Like other kinds of counselors, most child and family counselors need a master's degree in psychology, social work, or a related field. Most states require a child and family counselor to undergo practical training and pass a licensing exam before they can open up their own practice. Child and family counselors earn an average salary of $39,832 a year.

What general advice would you give to a child and family counselor?

Debra Minsky-KellyDebra Minsky-Kelly LinkedIn profile

Director of Field Education / Clinical Assistant Professor of Social Work, Carthage College

I think there are two critical skills for social workers, whether they are first entering the workforce or seasoned professionals. These skills are humility and an appreciation for ambiguity in our work. A humble approach to our work empowers clients to become experts on their circumstances. Social workers are then positioned in a collaborative role to help clients use existing skills and resources to improve their situations. An appreciation for ambiguity is closely related to the idea of humility. It helps us to remember that practice situations we face in this field are often far more complicated than they appear on the surface. Thus, all social workers need to make a strong commitment to lifelong learning and ongoing consultation with colleagues to ensure that multiple perspectives are included as we work to solve complex problems.
ScoreChild And Family CounselorUS Average
Salary
4.3

Avg. Salary $55,039

Avg. Salary $59,228

Stability level
10.0

Growth rate 9%

Growth rate 0.3%

Diversity
9.3
Race

American Indian and Alaska Native 1.51%

Asian 2.67%

Black or African American 13.37%

Hispanic or Latino 15.12%

Unknown 4.19%

White 63.14%

Gender

female 75.50%

male 24.50%

Age - 42
Race

American Indian and Alaska Native 3.00%

Asian 7.00%

Black or African American 14.00%

Hispanic or Latino 19.00%

White 57.00%

Gender

female 47.00%

male 53.00%

Age - 42
Stress level
10.0

Stress level is very high

7.1 - high

Complexity level
8.5

Complexity level is advanced

7 - challenging

Work life balance
6.2

Work life balance is fair

6.4 - fair

Child and family counselor career paths

Key steps to become a child and family counselor

  1. Explore child and family counselor education requirements

    Most common child and family counselor degrees

    Bachelor's

    54.6 %

    Master's

    32.4 %

    Associate

    7.0 %
  2. Start to develop specific child and family counselor skills

    SkillsPercentages
    Social Work18.75%
    Mental Health17.97%
    Community Resources14.09%
    Child Care8.96%
    Child Development8.65%
  3. Complete relevant child and family counselor training and internships

    Accountants spend an average of Less than 1 month on post-employment, on-the-job training. New child and family counselors learn the skills and techniques required for their job and employer during this time. The chart below shows how long it takes to gain competency as a child and family counselor based on U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics data and data from real child and family counselor resumes.
  4. Research child and family counselor duties and responsibilities

    • Help children/youth in state custody achieve permanency whether through reintegration, adoption or custodianship.
    • Attend necessary court hearings and work alongside DHS to ensure safety of children.
    • Work with families and juveniles involve in the DHS and juvenile court systems.
    • Assist patients in establishing an alcohol/drug free lifestyle by increasing their understanding of their pathological relationship to mood/mind altering chemicals.
  5. Prepare your child and family counselor resume

    When your background is strong enough, you can start writing your child and family counselor resume.

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  6. Apply for child and family counselor jobs

    Now it's time to start searching for a child and family counselor job. Consider the tips below for a successful job search:

    1. Browse job boards for relevant postings
    2. Consult your professional network
    3. Reach out to companies you're interested in working for directly
    4. Watch out for job scams

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Average child and family counselor salary

The average child and family counselor salary in the United States is $55,039 per year or $26 per hour. Child and family counselor salaries range between $40,000 and $74,000 per year.

Average child and family counselor salary
$55,039 Yearly
$26.46 hourly

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A zippia user wrote a review on Jan 2024
Pros

The children are always worth it.

Cons

Stressful, dangerous neighborhoods, sometimes parents are dangerous as well. Work life balance isn't good. Documentation is very time consuming and you will bring that home to finish. If your agency requires that you do your app recorded time sheets then that will prove ardously time consuming constaint that cuts right into your work/home life balance...it's terrible. Wear and tear on your car, no shows from parents upsetting children and paid mileage is horrible. Get ready to barely have a life.


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A zippia user wrote a review on Dec 2019
Pros

Serving people, impacting change in communities, never boring


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A zippia user wrote a review on Nov 2019
Pros

The vulnerable are cared for and protected


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Updated January 8, 2025

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